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Tuesday, October 29, 2013
NaNoWriMo 2013
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Pick a Direction and Start Moving
If you think that way, that's all you see. However, if you're open to possibilities, creative thinking and have even a teaspoon of confidence, when you ask the powers in the universe for a sign you may find one, like I did yesterday.
Clear direction spelled out on the sidewalk under my feet. Sure, it was a message meant for someone else, but it spoke to me too.
Here's what I chose to see. Pick a direction and move in that direction.
What do you see? It will tell you a lot about your mindset.
Friday, July 27, 2012
Dog Days - Avoid the Pack
- Are you where you want to be financially?
- Is your career going as you had planned?
- Are you happy with the current state of your health?
- Are you pleased with and fulfilled by the relationships in your life?
- Have you created enough time in your schedule to pursue your hobbies?
- Are you regularly increasing your education, either formally or informally?
- Are you satisfied with the contributions of time, treasure or talent you’re making to the community of your choice?
- Are you continually improving?
Friday, July 13, 2012
Do Your Passions Overlap?
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Saturday, June 30, 2012
Declare your Independence from Mediocrity with the Goal Goodness Package
Start the second half of the year strong with these books, tools and programs from Karl Bimshas, aimed to help you find, set and achieve your great goals.
Here’s what’s in the Goal Goodness Package
1. Go Get It! Your Guide to Finding Purpose, Setting Goals and Maintaining Success
2. Pushing Back the Ocean; Tide Turning Leadership Lessons
3. How To Stay When You Want To Quit; Re-scripting your life from whiner to winner
4. Write Advice: Inspirations, tips and thoughts for Leaders and Artists
5. Perspectives; A 30 Day Journal to View Your World Differently6. Just The Facts Worksheet
6. Time for Change: A Quick Guide to Manage (Survive) Planned (Sudden) Change
7. The Day Kevin Turtle Abandoned His Shell; A Short Story to Transform Wishes into Work
Plus more, all in separate .pdf files
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Friday, June 22, 2012
Goal Setting Survey
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Sunday, January 8, 2012
Private Goals
When I was in my early twenties, friends and I used to start the year optimistically with some mantra or pithy phrase for the New Year.
In my thirties, I learned more about goal setting and how to achieve them faster. I also created elaborate documents filled with metrics and dashboards with pictures of success. My success rate was good, but I often became enslaved to numbers, not intent or purpose. As a result, any celebration felt lackluster, if I bothered to have one at all.
In recent years I’ve been getting back to basics and using words as a theme and compass for the year ahead. This year my focusing words are Create, Prosper and Confidence.
You can bet behind each of them I have a specific vision, strategy, tactics and measures of success, but I’ve become far less uptight about the bottom-line numbers.
I'm a believer in broadcasting a piece of your goals so people can help hold you accountable to them, but sometimes a public declaration can take the steam out of it. Once you declared something and people hold you accountable it can begin to feel like an obligation and people helping you feel like nags. This can be positive and powerful for some. I wouldn't have built a business around being an accountability partner if it wasn't. However, some goals should remain private.
They may not be for public consumption but they are no less grand, or inspiriting or noble. These are the secret goals that paint a smirk across your face when you work on them. There's a thrill and deep satisfaction knowing that you’re accomplishing something grand unbeknownst to others. This is the place where the overnight success is born. Away from the spotlight, in the shadows where no one is looking.
Private goals achieved is often far more satisfying because you did it yourself, without outside intervention. You could have quit at anytime and no one would have known or cared. Except you, and you cared, and you don't quit. These ones are too important.
Friday, December 16, 2011
My New eBook ... GO GET IT!
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Tuesday, November 15, 2011
18 Lame Excuses and Their No Nonsense Remedies That Will Help You Grow
- I don’t know what my passion is. If you know you want to do something, but don’t know what, figure out where you’ve been spending your time and money over the last three months. Start there.
- I don’t know what I can contribute. When you strip out the noise, the only thing you can really contribute to anything is your own perspective, and that’s invaluable.
- I don’t have enough education. Let me Google that for you. Don’t have a computer? Go to a library and start learning.
- I don’t know any of the right people. They are probably on Twitter, Facebook, or Linkedin. Find them, or the people who know them.
- I don’t have enough money. Someone does, money is everywhere. Focus on finding the right buyer.
- I think it’s too hard. So what? If it were too easy, you wouldn’t bother.
- Someone else is already doing it. It doesn’t matter, they are not you. They don’t have your perspective and set of experiences. Competition makes you better.
- I don’t know where to start. It’s a two part process; Someplace, and Now.
- I don’t know if anyone will care. Start with you. All that matters initially is that you care. People follow leaders who care.
- I haven’t done this before. Everything you do now was once something you hadn’t done before.
- I don’t think I’m that good. Give yourself permission to get better or delegate.
- I’ll do it later. No, you probably won’t. You haven’t yet. Revisit #8.
- I don’t think I can commit right now. What date can you commit?
- There are too many obstacles. Then you’re probably on to something. Great stories, and great lives, always have conflict.
- I did everything I could think of. Probably not everything, just the things you wanted to do. Keep at it. Do it again, but different this time.
- I’m too tired for this. Structure your day to include eating, exercising, resting, playing and working. Everyday you will be simultaneously exhausted and energized.
- It doesn’t “feel” right to me. Feelings are often used as an excuses to not do something your head knows is right. Feelings are important in their own right, so don’t saddle them as an alibi for inaction.
- I’m worried people will think I’m crazy. That’s called innovation, embrace it. Be one of the crazy ones.
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
A Singular Path to Success?
For every guru who preaches patience, another advises massive action. For those who say keep high standards and be discerning over the projects you accept, another will tell you to accept everything and learn along the way. For those who say live a balanced life, another says focus only on your strengths.
I'm convinced everyone who has the freedom of choice has the ability to chart their own course. It may not be the route you want to take. You might be bored by the view or impatient with your progress. Those are issues with how you go about enjoying the journey, not about your chosen path. Some will follow well-traveled paths and some take another. As Robert Frost reminds us, that can make all the difference.
Sometimes we need a guide, but this pathfinder does no good if they don't know where you want to go. They ask thoughtful questions that will reveal what you want and what holds you back. If you’re open to seeing it, they can show you the way. The steps you take and the speed you make are completely up to you.
Where do you want to go?
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Writing Yet?
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Always. But Sometimes, Never.
People get lazy in their discussions with each other. Always and Never are two words that get loudly bantered about like a ping pong ball. Those two words in particular are emotionally charged and most often used when the speaker is expressing a definitive opinion, disguised in an accusation.
An argument inevitably occurs when one speaker starts with an, "I always..." or a "You never..."
The unavoidable reaction from the other sounds like, "You always..." or "I never..."
On and on it goes. Point, counter point; both issue opinions that they think are facts.
Facts have certainty while the words Always and Never only sound like they do. True, the sun always rises in the East and sets in the West. Not true, that you never make the bed. You probably have at least once and probably will again. Nature has some certainty to it, we do not. Always and Never are inflammatory rhetoric seldom used in a well meaning way.
Always is forever,
and most things seldom are.
Never is not ever,
and that goes a bit too far.
Sometimes rests between the two,
with honesty and moderation.
But sometimes lacks the punch for you,
and reeks of hesitation.
Always and Never have been used in a destructive manner for too long. I'm not suggesting a movement that strips them from your vocabulary. I'm suggesting you use them when stating a desire instead of blame.
Be honest with Sometimes, which can probably replace Always and Never in most of your language. Grow more definitive in your life. Don't have values or beliefs that you sometimes follow. And of course...
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Turbo charge your goals by using the Goal Planner Worksheet from Karl Bimshas Consulting. It will help you organize your thoughts and serve as a blueprint for achieving what’s important to you.
Click HERE to get started.
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
The Gift of Perseverance
With all the problems we see around us, disasters, financial, emotional, political, religious to list a very few. I was captivated the other day by the beauty and horror of nature.
I'd noticed many Killdeer all around the building that my company has reconstructed and is beginning to move into. I've always liked these little birds. They are ground birds similar to ocean shore Terns that run back and forth with the waves. One in particular has been nesting in pebbles right next to a patio near the entrance I usually use. She used to scream as I walked by but then got used to me going by I guess and just sat motionless, keeping an eye on me.
Last Friday when the sky opened up and there was an incredible downpour, I went to the window to watch for a minute. I noticed a Killdeer running across the driveway and jumping up the curb on the other side. "Running for cover" I thought. Then I saw this itty bitty tiny figure following her! About the size of a humming bird I would say. It raced across the driveway that was becoming a raging river and just couldn't make the jump up the new curb. The Mom ran back and forth encouraging it - but it could not make it.
I noticed a gap in the curb and hoped the little guy would find it but it ran the other way. I saw no gaps that way, only the street a few hundred feet away. It ran up and then back down. The Mom running back and forth with it! Then it found the gap and quickly went through. That's when I noticed that there was a small ditch on the other side! (Small to us but huge to the little bird!) It rushed in but was soon out of site. The Mom went "downstream" following it and then stopped, huddled near the bank. I could not tell if the baby had made it or drown! I watched a bit and then recalled the other mother I usually passed on the other side of the building. I went over there and looked but saw nothing. Nothing but pouring rain and pebbles and stones near the patio.
"Oh, poor thing" I was thinking. Then I saw her! Bravely huddled down among the stones still sitting on her eggs! What a gallant little animal! I hope her eggs hatch before the landscaping makes it to that part of the property!
On my way back to my office the rain stopped and as I passed the window I noticed the little bird again running across the driveway behind it's Mom! Dodging the landscaping vehicles that were coming to life after the rain as well. It looked to be the same one, so I tell myself it was. Killdeer usually start with 4-6 eggs so this was the Mom's last one. The other bird still sitting on the eggs luckily had four.
It was a reminder that nature is very tough on other inhabitants of this earth as well people. Yet they don't give up in frustration.
I'm sure, like my brother, you've witnesses similar acts of perseverance with other animals. The world is tough, it's as messy as it is beautiful, it's as brutal as it is merciful. Instincts keep most creatures focused on their goals. Fear is what keeps most people from their goals.
When you're in pursuit of a worthy goal, the world may throw a lot of obstacles in front of you. It's okay, expect them. You can even use some of them to help you. But never, ever give up.
Monday, February 14, 2011
Who Do You Love?
Several years ago I asked the people I work with that question. Specifically, “Which clients do you love the most?” More interesting than the answers was the speed in which everyone was able to respond. There was no hesitation as grown men and women – some road weary and hardened by the world, were able to freely and easily proclaim their love of particular clients.
I didn’t ask why they loved the clients they chose – but none could resist signing the virtues of those who had earned their affection. The reasons were as varied as, “They always pay on time” to “They get us and it’s always a pleasure to be with them.”
When they spoke, they pitched forward on their toes, appeared lighter on their feet and a sparkle danced in their eyes. As they continued to speak of these exalted clients they almost seemed giddy, certainly confident, and overwhelmingly pleased.
Now, to me, that looked a lot like love. Unfortunately my follow up question didn’t elicit as much frivolity.
“How much time do you spend with those you love?”
The swift wind that had filled their sails moments earlier had just been zapped, their magnificent sailboats stalled at sea as the air visibly deflated from their chests.
Excuses were mumbled over tightened lips – but it didn’t really matter what the reasons were, the result was the same. Neglect. Everyone one of them knew that love suffering from neglect could easily go away. It may be sudden or gradually – but it is inevitable.
Whether it be clients, employees, colleagues, family or friends – are you spending enough time with those you love? If not, start – because fundamentally there is nothing that you could possibly be spending time on that is more important or worthwhile than the people you love?
There are two ways to remedy this. First, shift your priorities to spend less time on the “burdens” and more time with those you love. Second, simply love more. Whether it be clients, employees, colleagues, family or friends – lead with a loving heart.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
1-4-3 Great Goal
In 1894 a flashing lantern was installed on the lighthouse at Minot's Ledge, about 20 miles southeast of Boston Harbor. The pulsating pattern, “1-4-3” soon developed into romantic folklore. It symbolized a coded message sent from the lighthouse keeper to his wife and family back on shore, “I-LOVE-YOU”.
There seems no better time than Valentine’s Day to announce a sweetheart deal for leaders and artists who want to discover their next great goal.
Too many people live life without a plan or even the knowledge of where to start. That’s why I’m excited about the Great Goal Discovery online coaching program.
The biggest value of online coaching is that you can complete your sessions at a time that suits you. If you’re busy with family or work commitments, you can complete your coaching sessions when it’s convenient for you from the comfort of your own home or office.
The Great Goal Discovery online coaching program is considerably more affordable than appointment driven telephone or face-to-face coaching. Invest only $143 and work at your own pace directly with me as your accountability partner.
- Gather and understand your current goals.
- Dig deeper into your multidimensional life with a Life Harmony Audit.
- Create Great Goals to keep you focused.
- Take inventory of your resources.
- Review your pace of accomplishment and decide your next step.
Haven’t you deferred your dreams long enough?
Take action now. Great success is waiting for you. Go get it!
Monday, January 24, 2011
Your Goal Planner Worksheet
By now all the pressure to identify your 2011 goals has passed. You either have them, or you don’t. If you don’t, it’s not too late. You can set goals anytime you want. If you’ve already established your goals for the year, good on you. Let’s turbo charge what you have so far.
Attached is a goal planner worksheet that will help you organize your thoughts and serve as a blueprint for achieving your goals.
On the top of the worksheet there’s space to include your purpose or personal mission statement and your top values. Along the left side column are eight main dimensions of your life; Financial, Career, Health, Relationships, Recreation, Contribution, Personal and Education.
Many people spend their energy trying to balance their life. Don’t. Strive for harmony instead. Place one or two complementary goals for each dimension of your life. You’ll find your chances of achieving more increases dramatically.
For the remaining columns there are two paths you can take. Basic, which is the minimum you should do, or Advanced, which required a little more thought but also increases your clarity and speed in achieving your goals.
1. Decide on the specific things that you want to do, have or be during the year.
Basic: Create a SMART Goal for each dimension of your life.
Advanced: Phrase the SMART Goal as a question beginning with “Why.
2. Determine the purpose of each goal.
Basic: Describe why you want to achieve each goal.
Advanced: Describe why you want to achieve each goal and how you imagine you’d feel once you did.
3. Do the actions that need to be done?
Basic: Create a basic task list of things to be done to help achieve the goal.
Advanced: Include the financial and personal resources you need to achieve each goal.
4. Deadline when the goal will be done?
Basic: Simply stack rank your 1, 3, 5 or 10 year goals
Advanced: Have a specific date in which you plan to achieve each goal by.
If all this seems like too much work too bad. It’s very rare for a goal to show up on your doorstep neatly wrapped with a bow.
Goals are messy business. They involve thinking and effort and negotiation and involvement. If you want to work on wishes, save your coins and spend a day or two at your local wishing well. If you want to work on your goals and by definition, your life get started. If you want help let me know.
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
Goals 101
I seriously doubt people have too many goals, rather they have too many competing priorities clamoring for the A1 slot.
Here’s an exercise that will help you identify the one motivating goal that is burning inside of you. Think of it as your Great Goal. Everyone should have a Great Goal, the one that take precedence over all others. After you achieve it you can find another one, but not before because if you work on multiple Great Goals you risk diluting your efforts and weakening your chance at success. Follow these five steps to help focus your thinking.
1. Answer these questions:
- If I won one million dollars tomorrow, what would I do?
- If I could change one thing about my body, what would it be?
- Who do I wish to be and why?
- What skill do I wish I had learned as a child?
- Where do I see my career in five years?
2. Pick One
Choose the one answer from above that provokes the greatest reaction in you. That’s your goal; reflect on it and determine what part of it you believe you can accomplish in less than a year.
3. Pick a Time Frame
Determine, how long will it realistically take to accomplish this goal; one week, one month, six months, one year?
4. Determine the cost
What will it cost you to achieve this goal in either time, talent (effort) or treasure (money)?
5. Fill in the blanks
I resolve to (answer from step 2) in (answer from step 3) by (answer from step 4).
Now, refine your statement in a way they speaks more clearly to you. Write it on a note card, fold it up and bring it with you everywhere you go. Read it as often as you can; certainly at least twice a day, first thing in the morning and last thing at night.
Congratulations, you’re on your way, and already have done more work on your personal development than ninety percent of the people you interact with each day. I’d love to hear about your success. Send me an email once you’ve achieved your goal and tell me how long it took. You can also contact me if you want an accountability partner to help you stay on track and achieve your goal.
Friday, December 10, 2010
Three Paths. One Clear Way.
There are those who make no plans and do not set goals. It's not that they don't have a list of wants in their life but they tend to be dependent on outside resources out of their control; like winning the lottery. 85% of the people you meet fall into this category. They have no specific goals that they're focused on achieving. They work day by day, maybe weekend to weekend with little thought of cause and effect or the role their own action, or inaction plays in their life.
The next group of people are different. They have goals. The level of specificity may vary from person to person but ask them what their goal is and they can tell you. It might sound more like a wish to some, but these people know what they want. They're capable of achieving their goal but they get bouts of insecurity and feelings of doubt. 10% of the people you meet are in this group.
The final group also have goals. You'll notice they are far more specific when they describe them. Even if they sound far-fetched, there's something about their confidence and self-assuredness that convinces you it's not an idle dream of theirs. It's a worthwhile great goal and there's probably no stopping them. They have a secret weapon. Not only do they physically write down their goals, (something 95% of the people you know don't do) they also make plans toward accomplishing their goals. A plan needn't be more elaborate than a series of tasks and a deadline to meet each of those tasks. People with great goals achieve the important things they set out to achieve because they do the work it takes.
Before you decide which path you want to take next equip yourself with a clear goal and a plan.
Monday, November 22, 2010
Happy Yet? - New Online Coaching Program
have done a lot of the things you’ve wanted to do in life, feel like you manage yourself well and are in control of your future, are well organized ...
feel you have the amount of money you should; and are paid what you think you’re worth, good for you!
Your with the top 2% of people who are happy and feel successful. Hopefully you’re sharing your gifts of achievement with others.
However, you might be feeling like your floundering in the pool with the other 98% of people. Maybe you want to improve some of the stuff from above or maybe there’s something else you’ve wanted to accomplish.
All you know for sure is that something’s not quite right. You’ve been feeling disillusioned and discouraged, confused and frustrated, maybe overwhelmed because you’ve been deferring your important goals.
- What would it feel like to know you’re actively working on fulfilling your dreams?
- Imagine being able to wake up in the morning and feel sure of yourself, your decisions and your direction.
- What would it feel like to no longer defer your dreams?
- How long have you been promising yourself you will work on your personal goals, yet continue to have trouble getting started?
- How different would your life be if you suddenly had a great goal you were committed to working on each day?
- What kind of new experiences would come into your life if you could use the power of vision, passion and action to achieve the things you want and need?
The right accountability partner can help you do that and more.
Some people spend thousands of dollars on personal development programs that are heavy on storytelling but light on tangible actions you can do right away.
Don’t get me wrong, I gladly accept thousands of dollars from people in return for helping them to live the life they want, but that’s not what this is about. This is about introducing you to my method of Life Coaching Services through extremely affordable online coaching.
Many people consider working with a coach but are unsure of commitment requirements or the investment of time and money. Here’s a low risk solution. A new online program egotistically called “Your Introduction to Online Coaching with Karl Bimshas Consulting.” (Register Here)
I’m the founder of Karl Bimshas Consulting, a results driven personal and professional consulting firm for talented Leaders and Artists who want to achieve more. I’ve authored several personal development books and programs including:
- "Pushing Back the Ocean: Tide Turning Leadership Lessons"
- "How to Stay When You Want to Quit: Re-scripting your life from whiner to winner"
- "Write Advice; Inspirations, tips and thoughts for Leaders and Artists”
- “The Disposable Journal; Write it out and let it go”
- “The Write Goal” and "The Reflections on Leadership Memo"
With an M.S. in Executive Leadership from the University of San Diego and a B.A. in Mass Communication from Emerson College in Boston, I’ve previously held several operational and sales leadership positions in public and private corporations.
I’m driven to lead and inspire leaders and artists to maximize their unique strengths and continuously improve themselves, their organization and society, by bringing the powers of vision, passion and action to each endeavor.
Does this sound familiar to you?
“I had been feeling rather lost with regards too my life and what I wanted the future to look like. I didn't have a plan nor did I know were to start. Karl listened to my thoughts, aspirations and helped me direct t hat into real action.”
- Donnie Staples (Read more testimonials here)
Too many people live life without a plan, or even the knowledge of where to start. That’s why I’m excited about this online coaching program.
Online Coaching is for people who want to improve their focus, make the best use of their time and grow their personal and professional development.
With online coaching you can expect a regular response from me, enabling you to clarify where you are now, where you want to get to, and practical actions you need to take to get you there. I’ll prompt you with additional questions, tools and customized suggestions which will give you insight and further impetus to succeed in your goals. You simply complete each session as guided by me as your “coach”.
Why is online coaching valuable?
- You have time to think before you answer questions, getting far better insight than when giving your gut response in a face to face exchange.
- The act of writing (or typing) your answers and committed actions helps you to clarify what you are really doing and thinking. You’re far more likely to achieve your goals when you write them down.
- You can complete your online coaching at a time that suits you. So if you get busy with family or work commitments, you can complete your coaching sessions when it’s convenient for you from the comfort of your own home or office.
- Online coaching is considerably more affordable than appointment driven telephone or face-to-face coaching.
- Your coaching notes are all kept on one secure website so you can return to previous sessions for reflection and review.
Here’s your chance to save 50%
I wasn’t joking about the savings available through this introductory program. Invest only $250 and still work directly with Karl Bimshas Consulting as your online accountability partner for six sessions set at your own pace.
- Gather and understand your initial goals.
- Dig deeper into your multidimensional life.
- Learn how to handle concerns as you make the time to work on your goals.
- Create SMART GOALS to keep you focused.
- Assess your strengths and weaknesses.
- Review your pace of accomplishment and decide your next step.
At half the price of regular face to face consulting
you should get started on your New Year’s goals before everyone else.
There are 20 slots available before December 31, 2010, so if you’re ready to take action, do so soon.
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Here’s how you get started.
- You can “Register Now” on this page.
- Once you click the link above you’ll be sent to a registration page where you create your Username, Password, Email, First and Last Name.
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- Once you complete the purchase you’ll see the Welcome Page to the online coaching program and you can then begin your online coaching.
Haven’t you deferred your dreams long enough?
Why wait until another New Year to start on your goals?
Think of it this way. If you invest in this six session program and use the tools to discover your real wants and needs, anticipate change and assess your strengths, you’ll have more clarity around your goals so you can plan for the future with confidence. Or, if you choose to do nothing but keep the status quo, you could still be in the same place you are today three, six, even twelve months from now. Why delay working on your great goal?
Take action now -- because the chances are too great that with the holiday hustle and bustle you’ll forget about all the immense potential this introductory offer can bring you. Greater success is waiting for you. Go get it!





