Take an inventory of what it is you want. It is readily available or do you have to go someplace else for it? Would you?
Maybe you’ve gotten comfortable with all your complaining. People seem to be giving you pity – and you’ve been playing a great victim. Keep it up and you could keep doing what you’ve been doing until you retire or die, whichever comes first.
But that’s no way to live, so how about spending some time working on you. What do you want to do with yourself? You’ve got to have a clue. Reach back into your childhood if you need to.
What did you want to be when you grew up? Why?
Examine that in today’s context. Is it still appealing? If not, why not? If yes, then why the heck aren’t you doing it now?
Go ahead; list your ten best excuses for not pursuing your dreams. Write them down. Prioritize them just like you would your goals. Next, problem-solve them. Get rid of the barriers. Those SOB’s are keeping you from your dream.
Think of yourself as an actor on a television show. You want to contribute toward getting high ratings each week so the show avoids cancellation; you want to get renewed each season. So, you act and perform in a way that leads to the show’s success and you eventually earn awards. Remember, you want to be a Highly Valued Star, not a Greatness Inhibitor.
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